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We are bound to follow the moral law in any event—see the “Life in Christ” section of the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) for specifics—but we are not bound to keep private promises to God that admit of more than one authentically moral choice, particularly if there are factors of stress involved.
For example, a person may privately promise God they will become a priest or a religious, or a consecrated virgin. Perhaps they meant it sincerely. In any event, because they didn’t make any solemn promises or vows to a religious superior, diocesan bishop or other lawful Church authority, they are not bound by their promises or vows, and so they would not need canonical release by the relevant Church authority.
Going forward, and to avoid problems, tell God in your prayer that he seems to be leading you in a particular direction. Share with God that you only want to do his will and use the gifts he’s given you, whatever that entails, and if you continue to receive spiritual inclinations that are confirmed by your regular priest confessor and other relevant people in charge of making decisions—be they Church personnel or others, if it involves a secular career decision—that you will follow through in a particular direction.
Consequently, it’s good to have a regular priest confessor who can help you in navigating life decisions and other challenges. Seek a good one out if you don’t have one already, and stick with them.